DO YOU HAVE A SAFETY NET?
She
searched frantically in her red Versace bag
“there has to be some money or change
I left in this bag!” This was her last hope as
she had searched all other bags and found nothing but receipts of various extravagant
purchases, some
luxurious spa treatment and the likes....
She
cried out “how on earth did I get myself into this situation despite working over thirteen years of my
life with no spare money”.. Nothing
could control the tears as they flowed down swiftly in quick succession.
Let
me back track and tell you a bit about my friend Tonye. She started her career in the world of
Banking and rose through
the ranks from being a bank teller to becoming an Assistant General Manager.
Having gone through various trainings at work and being involved in the
start-up of a number of banks and
financial institutions , she had acquired the skills and know-how of being a
very seasoned finance professional, yet
had neither proof of that knowledge nor mastery of it in her own personal
finances.
Despite
years and wealth of financial, banking and investment experience as well as interactions with
professional counterparts, she had no "safety net"
If
only she had a SAFETY NET.
You
need to have a private/personal
"nest egg". In other words money or funds set aside for a rainy day
should anything happen to your spouse, children, loved ones in general, your
present earnings, income stream or job or even your health. Trust me Ladies, the
"rainy day" ALWAYS comes.
Your
nest egg is your SAFETY NET, which
is that savings or funds
that you have full and sole control over. It is fully within your control and
only one trusted person who is able to discourage you from dipping into it at the slightest whim, would have knowledge of
it. This is different from your regular savings or investments. This is purely
what I would like to term as “tranquility zone" that
is, a state you get to that
gives you financial peace against unforeseen circumstances”
Literally, a Safety Net means: “a net placed to catch an acrobat or
similar performer in case of a fall”. “A safeguard against possible hardship or
adversity”. In other words,
something you can rely on to help you, should
you get into difficult situations......Collins
dictionary
By
the way Ladies, has it ever occurred to you - how it is that when
ever you are in dire straits,
you hardly find anyone to help you or come to
your rescue? Food for thought
Seven
ways to build your Safety Net are:
1.
Be very truthful to
yourself about your financial status
2.
Put your income into
perspective:
organise both
income and expenditure while
pruning your
wants and even your NEEDS.
3.
Set aside a fixed amount from your salary or income, (which you‘re comfortable with) and save every day, week or month without
defaulting. If possible, set up
a direct debit on your account so it becomes non-negotiable even when other pressing needs
arises. Also make sure there are no ATM cards, internet banking or apps
connected to this account to discourage all forms of withdrawals and
temptations that may arise.
4.
Join a financial cooperative preferably one with constitutions, fully regulated with by-laws,
bearing in
mind that you are in it for a long term. Ensure you carry
out your due
diligence before you commence this
journey.
In
the absence of the above option,
join a thrift or contribution scheme that will enable you discipline yourself
to set money aside.
5.
Learn about investments: Take baby steps but be steady and decisive in these
areas. Find low or no risk investments (not
affected by inflation) you
can research and embark on,
with long term proof of reliability and results. Once armed with proper
information, start investing IMMEDIATELY.
6.Find
an Accountability partner (one who
is financially prudent and highly
disciplined) to
discuss with, and
give updates on your finances. If you
can afford it, seek out or hire a finance coach with track record of results.
7.
Start by
saving N1,000 every day for the rest of
the year. It could be more or less depending on your income but make sure it is
consistent and steady. You can increase your daily savings as income stream increases or
improves but avoid reducing.
Note:
No income is too small for you to save from.......NONE
very inspiring
ReplyDeleteThanks Lin, wishing you all the best with your safety net!
Deletewell i thought i did...i have a savings plan for rainy days but i realize i end up spending all before the rainy days spring up, that is my biggest challenge, however in the process of trying to figure out what i can do, i stumbled on your blog. Thanks for explaining the strictness of a saving net especially for women
DeleteI'm glad the post helped you differentiate between having a savings account and a safety net. Every lady must of a necessity have her own safety net. Thank you Linda once again
DeleteI am at a point in my life I was wondering how to safe and stick to it, this message is what I needed to read, I believe it will make all the difference. Thank you for this
ReplyDeleteAwesome! I am so glad the post has had an immediate positive influence on you and please take action NOW! Thank you so much Anne!
ReplyDeleteTotal fact of life, am going to spend wisely and save better now.am so proud of you.
ReplyDeleteGreat decision! My very own sister, can't wait to see you at the top girlfriend!
DeleteI'm glad this came my way. "Safety Net." This is helping my resolve to be more finacially literate. Thanks
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely! it has be a strong, no-looking-back resolve. All the best ma with your safety net. Thank you so much for your encouragement.
DeleteThis has been on my mind all week. Thanks for this sis, taking these little but decisive steps asap.
ReplyDeletePlease take immediate action my darling sister, I can't wait to hear the news about the growth of your safety net. Thank you so much!
DeleteAnother needful reminder. Money is a visitor; I will double up efforts at tying down this VIP visitor. Thank you for this resourceful write-up.
ReplyDeleteVery true we all need to be mindful and very disciplined to make the best use of the money that flows through our hands. Thank you so much.
DeleteVery Insightful- Thank you for the reminder. Am curious... Do you have any suggestions of cooperatives and financial coaches? Am in Abuja
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your very encouraging comment. I'm glad you want to take immediate action. I have a couple of co-operatives and an experienced financial coach I could recommend but it is still subject to your personal preference and due diligence.
ReplyDeleteThanks for this,sis. It's a very timely wake up call. I will adhere and tell you how it goes.
ReplyDeleteAwesome! I'm eagerly waiting to hear about your safety net. Thanks for reading the post sis.
DeleteThis is very helpful..... i am taking action immediately. Thank you sis.
ReplyDeleteFantastic! waiting to hear about your safety net.
DeleteIndeed a wake up call. Thank you for this.
ReplyDeleteNice piece! Keep up the good efforts.
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